The ability to soothe oneself during times of tension and conflict with a spouse is critical to the maintenance of a healthy, intimate relationship. This ability is directly correlated with the degree of one’s personal maturity or differentiation. The mature and well differentiated person is one who feels secure and who feels ok with himself … read more
Can My Marriage Be Saved?
I had been asked the question many times: “Do you think there is any hope for our marriage?” The couple in my office assume that I am an expert in marital health and disease and that I can, therefore, make a realistic estimate of the chances of the survival of their marriage. It is not, … read more
Help for Test Anxiety
Having trouble passing a test that you know you should pass? Have you have studied and you know the material, but get up tight when you sit down to take the test? Here are some of the symptoms of TEST ANXIETY: Reading questions several times Staring at a page that seems to have gone blank … read more
Crimes Against Children
If anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea. Matthew 18:6 As a culture we are becoming increasingly sensitized to the way children are use … read more